Angie Ras became my friend in junior high because she liked a guy in my ward (see Christmas formal picture on Kelly's post). It’s the honest truth, but, somehow that never mattered. The “guy” has long since been forgotten (along with quite a few others) and we have 19 years of friendship. A crazy number…can we possibly be so old?!
I wonder about some other tallies. How many mini chocolate Cadbury eggs have we eaten together? How many total hours have we spent on the phone? Weeks or months, I’m sure. Days & days of laughing, crying, whining, planning. Oh yes, we have concocted some classic plans in our time. Like the time she decided to help me get Jim (post break-up #1) back by convincing him to join our roadtrip to Utah. Yah, he came, but saw right through the “we need a travel clown” ruse (it was another year and a half before he caved). Nor did we fool her crush up north with our “drop by”. But, oh how we lauded our cleverness at the time.
Then there was the time when Jim invited us both on a weekend roadtrip to Luna with the lure of fishing. Ang wanted to fish. I could have cared less, but I wanted Jim. When he came for chauffer service that Saturday morning, Ras called in sick. I was livid & embarrassed at the time, but oh my was that a good day. She knew. Everyone needs a friend who knows.
So, today is Ras’s birthday, and I called her up on Tuesday to see about a celebratory Saturday breakfast.
Yes!
Any ideas on where you’d like to go?
Let’s do it at my house. I’ll make you guys breakfast.
Two egg omelette with mushrooms and gouda, please. No, wait, the point was to take you out, not to make you buy, cook, slave & clean.
But this is how Ras is. Once upon a time when I was not in the best of spirits (for like 6 months straight), Ras came over to clean and fold the laundry that was covering my bed, my floor, my Me. The clothes-ridden room was a small sign of a large funk that did not escape her notice. This was years ago, but something I will never forget.
Other things I’ll never forget about Ras:
- She laughs so hard & huge that she cries.
- She (& Vel!) surprised me by showing up at my mission farewell in Colorado. Beautiful, beautiful surprise….truly calmed my pre-mission jitters.
- She likes to take “sick days”.
- She likes to shop, but is enviably good with money.
- She likes to travel.
- She is exceptionally smart, Masters Degree and all.
- She loves her Justin & he loves her.
- She always knows the best spots for good eats.
- Her house is always perfect – not just in how it looks, but in the how it feels, which is sometimes more important. It’s just peaceful, calm. I love sitting on her big chairs to just talk & talk.
- there's so, so much more...but I need to save some stories for years to come!
Kelly & I were plotting to do a joint post, but my week has been manic, so we went solo instead. I didn't dig through my old pictures, but there are some fabulous ones on Kel's blog. 19 years of memories. Those are the best kinds of friendships by far...
So, Happy 33 Ras! I love that you always get to try the year on a few months before my turn.